Value of a friendship

It has been almost 2 weeks since the last update. Thinking and thinking what to blog or brag about. I have no intention of this entry but somehow my buttons are being push….

Has anyone ever wonder the value of a MORE-THAN-10-YEARS-FRIENDSHIP????.....

What is the extend or stretch of such FRIENDSHIP, which no ruler or measurement tape can measure????.....

How all the sweet, sour, spicy and bitter put into this soup of FRIENDSHIP????.......

Well, CONGRATULATION!!!!, to those who know and those who don’t or those who know but feign ignorance or those who still value and kept it going for the sake of the value and kindness or shall i say GUILTY ……

Let me story you…….

Gal got to know Guy from Gal-friend who know Guy through Guy’s EX. Gal made contact with Guy and finally after a few months of phone calls and sms-ing, met up for the first time at CBTL…. (Now, most of the conversation between Gal and Guy is more than 30 minutes to 1 hour at any one time)

Now what happen in between before CBTL, Guy go and tell Guy’s EX, that Gal-friend gave his number to Gal, which ended in Gal-friend being accused by Guy’s EX trying to fix Guy up with Gal and was displeased with it.

Let me summarize you the story so far…..

Gal-friend maybe unintentionally or intentionally decided to blurt out that Guy is actually asking Guy’s EX to get back together, knowing for the fact that Guy’s EX is trying to get a divorce from husband.

Gal-friend and Guy initially have made several attempts to meet up but unsuccessful. Reason is Gal-friend feels that Guy’s EX is trying to set her up with Guy initially.

Gal-friend also reveals to Gal, that she does not really like Guy. The reason Gal-friend dislikes Guy for the way he talks and thinks. Gal-friend thinks Guy has ATTITUDE problem.

Let me conclude the story so far ……

Gal felt ‘so sedih’ today because she felt Gal-friend know a lot of things about Guy and didn’t thought of filling Gal in on it, considering the VALUE OF MORE-THAN-10-YEARS-FRIENDSHIP thingy they had.

Gal felt that she has been unruly check-out by Guy, whom she felt has no right to do so judging at the situation and condition he is in. By the way, who is he to make comparison, what right has he?????..... Every value Gal have can never be compared to a BIMBO..... (please-ah if anyone 'terasa', live with it)

‘Sad memang Sedih-lah’. Gal decided to let nature takes its course. Things will prevail and the truth will be reveal in due course.....

I need a FIX IT........

What is a FIX-IT????....... If you are an FC (stands for ‘fan club’) of FLY FM Morning Show, you would not miss this segment, between 7.30am to 8.00am.

HILARIOUS, SAD, AMUSING, SICKENING and the list goes on and on and on….. Naturally, I would say that this segment was created not for entertainment or shall I say not to ridicule on the account of others, but whatever solid reason for the existence of this show, I would say; GREAT JOB, GUYS!!!!.... for the DIPLOMATIC HANDLING of the FIX-IT!!!!.....

I guess when FLY FM created this segment, it was in good faith that the TOTAL POPULATION out there has a sense of MATURITY and COMMON SENSE, when sending in their FIX-IT requests.

NO OFFENCE-LAH MY Fellow FC FLY FM!!!!..... Let me recall some most recent FIX-IT… (DISCLAIMER : I am not using any name or nick name, in-directly or directly relating, so ‘siapa terasa’, too bad-lah)

This one is a PADAN MUKA case – This guy was caught by his two girlfriends two-timing them at the same time. It so happens that the two girls met each other at an all girls get-together, not realizing exchanged information and put 1 + 1 = 2, that they are seeing or shall I put it their not-so-shy two timing boyfriend dating the two girls at the same time.

Now, what happen during the FIX-IT, both DJs contact and chat a bit with the two girls and put them on hold, then call the boyfriend on another line, chat a bit and ar-bra-ca-da-bra, the cats unleashed.

The most sickening thing, is despite bring it to light, the not-so-shy-two timing guy was asked, if he has learned his lesson???? NOooo!!! and he claims he has a No. 3, 4 or even a 5 out there.

Now, how about it, students are getting bolder these days – A student send in a FIX-IT, asking for an extension to submit in a school assignment. During the FIX-IT segment, DJs contacted the student and then call the student’s teacher relating the problem.

Well, it is the nature of humans, how furious the teacher was but obviously she kept her cool and handled it diplomatically. How embarrassing!!!!.... I wonder if the said student’s parents are aware of their children’s activities and I thought there was this ruling of ‘under 18 years old, requires parents permission’ thingy……

I call this a real FIX-IT case – This girl loses her beloved Persian cat and she felt so sad. She was I think, sobbing on the missing cat and made a request if anyone found it, to return it to her.

A few days later, the DJs contacted her again, to ask how she was doing and if the cat came back, but unfortunately NO-lor… So sad…. And a solution to her FIX-IT… some good Samaritan offer her a Persian kitten….

Ironically, for the good or bad, we have to measure and practice some SENSIBILITY and being PRACTICAL on such matters where LIVE feed is concern.