What kinda friend you are to me...

Ok... ok.... stop screaming or poking me... Thank you all my friends for being patience....
I am actually lost for things to write... Below is something I received from a dear FACEBOOK friend and I am sharing this with the rest you who are not on FACEBOOK.....

PEOPLE …..

come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person. When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed.

They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually.

They may seem like a godsend and they are.

They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.

Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away.

Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.


SEASON ….

Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn.They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh.

They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.Be lieve it, it is real. But only for a season.


LIFETIME …….

Relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.

Value of a friendship

It has been almost 2 weeks since the last update. Thinking and thinking what to blog or brag about. I have no intention of this entry but somehow my buttons are being push….

Has anyone ever wonder the value of a MORE-THAN-10-YEARS-FRIENDSHIP????.....

What is the extend or stretch of such FRIENDSHIP, which no ruler or measurement tape can measure????.....

How all the sweet, sour, spicy and bitter put into this soup of FRIENDSHIP????.......

Well, CONGRATULATION!!!!, to those who know and those who don’t or those who know but feign ignorance or those who still value and kept it going for the sake of the value and kindness or shall i say GUILTY ……

Let me story you…….

Gal got to know Guy from Gal-friend who know Guy through Guy’s EX. Gal made contact with Guy and finally after a few months of phone calls and sms-ing, met up for the first time at CBTL…. (Now, most of the conversation between Gal and Guy is more than 30 minutes to 1 hour at any one time)

Now what happen in between before CBTL, Guy go and tell Guy’s EX, that Gal-friend gave his number to Gal, which ended in Gal-friend being accused by Guy’s EX trying to fix Guy up with Gal and was displeased with it.

Let me summarize you the story so far…..

Gal-friend maybe unintentionally or intentionally decided to blurt out that Guy is actually asking Guy’s EX to get back together, knowing for the fact that Guy’s EX is trying to get a divorce from husband.

Gal-friend and Guy initially have made several attempts to meet up but unsuccessful. Reason is Gal-friend feels that Guy’s EX is trying to set her up with Guy initially.

Gal-friend also reveals to Gal, that she does not really like Guy. The reason Gal-friend dislikes Guy for the way he talks and thinks. Gal-friend thinks Guy has ATTITUDE problem.

Let me conclude the story so far ……

Gal felt ‘so sedih’ today because she felt Gal-friend know a lot of things about Guy and didn’t thought of filling Gal in on it, considering the VALUE OF MORE-THAN-10-YEARS-FRIENDSHIP thingy they had.

Gal felt that she has been unruly check-out by Guy, whom she felt has no right to do so judging at the situation and condition he is in. By the way, who is he to make comparison, what right has he?????..... Every value Gal have can never be compared to a BIMBO..... (please-ah if anyone 'terasa', live with it)

‘Sad memang Sedih-lah’. Gal decided to let nature takes its course. Things will prevail and the truth will be reveal in due course.....

I need a FIX IT........

What is a FIX-IT????....... If you are an FC (stands for ‘fan club’) of FLY FM Morning Show, you would not miss this segment, between 7.30am to 8.00am.

HILARIOUS, SAD, AMUSING, SICKENING and the list goes on and on and on….. Naturally, I would say that this segment was created not for entertainment or shall I say not to ridicule on the account of others, but whatever solid reason for the existence of this show, I would say; GREAT JOB, GUYS!!!!.... for the DIPLOMATIC HANDLING of the FIX-IT!!!!.....

I guess when FLY FM created this segment, it was in good faith that the TOTAL POPULATION out there has a sense of MATURITY and COMMON SENSE, when sending in their FIX-IT requests.

NO OFFENCE-LAH MY Fellow FC FLY FM!!!!..... Let me recall some most recent FIX-IT… (DISCLAIMER : I am not using any name or nick name, in-directly or directly relating, so ‘siapa terasa’, too bad-lah)

This one is a PADAN MUKA case – This guy was caught by his two girlfriends two-timing them at the same time. It so happens that the two girls met each other at an all girls get-together, not realizing exchanged information and put 1 + 1 = 2, that they are seeing or shall I put it their not-so-shy two timing boyfriend dating the two girls at the same time.

Now, what happen during the FIX-IT, both DJs contact and chat a bit with the two girls and put them on hold, then call the boyfriend on another line, chat a bit and ar-bra-ca-da-bra, the cats unleashed.

The most sickening thing, is despite bring it to light, the not-so-shy-two timing guy was asked, if he has learned his lesson???? NOooo!!! and he claims he has a No. 3, 4 or even a 5 out there.

Now, how about it, students are getting bolder these days – A student send in a FIX-IT, asking for an extension to submit in a school assignment. During the FIX-IT segment, DJs contacted the student and then call the student’s teacher relating the problem.

Well, it is the nature of humans, how furious the teacher was but obviously she kept her cool and handled it diplomatically. How embarrassing!!!!.... I wonder if the said student’s parents are aware of their children’s activities and I thought there was this ruling of ‘under 18 years old, requires parents permission’ thingy……

I call this a real FIX-IT case – This girl loses her beloved Persian cat and she felt so sad. She was I think, sobbing on the missing cat and made a request if anyone found it, to return it to her.

A few days later, the DJs contacted her again, to ask how she was doing and if the cat came back, but unfortunately NO-lor… So sad…. And a solution to her FIX-IT… some good Samaritan offer her a Persian kitten….

Ironically, for the good or bad, we have to measure and practice some SENSIBILITY and being PRACTICAL on such matters where LIVE feed is concern.

Peculiarity....

Means the quality of peculiar......

Hah!!! Must be wondering what it means.....

Not thinking or asking about it, a friend whom I thought will not call or might have forgotten bout my number or whatever.... CALLED me and we yak... yak... for more than an hour.

This friend of mind share a lot of ideology and philosophy about life and human itself which hit me, leaving me with more question marks on my mind of what kinda damage i'm inflicting to my life at this moment. If you guys out there read books like Secret by Rhonda Byrne or understand what is Quantum of Physics Theory by Eistein, then you know what I meant.

I'm going to a state of life crisis which come to a point if someone will to ask me; What is it that you are thinking?? or What is it you want in life??, I won't be able to give an answer. This is where criticism and a lot of toxic statements from all ends will come in because a lot of people around me thinks I'm wasting my time and I'm rejecting their help and I'm being selfish and I choose to isolate myself from others ... blah blah blah.....

I can choose to defend and tell this people off... but somehow somewhere inside me tell me to just stay COOL and BE PATIENCE. It came to a state I just feel like giving everything up and masuk TANJUNG RAMBUTAN but on the other hand this is just too easy.

I know there are lot of people around me who cares a lot and wants to see me success in life but somehow they just don't understand that their current doings is giving me LOTSA STRESS, VERY TOXIC AND I'M DROWNING HERE!!!!

Well, this is how things are sometime. PATIENCE IS THE GREATEST VIRTUE.

He! he! he! superfluos or superfluity???

He! he! he! superfluos or superfluity??? God knows....

Frankly speaking, I didn't look up the meaning of this 2 words until lately when I decided to join the Bandwagon World of Blogging. This 2 words was a gift from a old flam whom I still have not decided whether to acknowledge if I ever bump into.

I still keep the piece of paper which the old flam pen down as part of a short short poem given to me during our enstranged friendship, if I can still find it and probably 'beem it up scotty' for all of you to see it in true self.

Till then Is it superfluos or superfluity???.... U guys think about it. Chiao!!!